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Re: My Girlfriend is being harassed by mystery person(s). advice?
« Reply #30 on: November 07, 2019, 05:39:39 AM »
Good for him.  I'm glad that he got out of it ok.
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Re: My Girlfriend is being harassed by mystery person(s). advice?
« Reply #31 on: November 07, 2019, 02:29:33 PM »
when is the made-for-tv movie due out?  ;D

i was cast as bad guy # 2. i played it out well.

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Re: My Girlfriend is being harassed by mystery person(s). advice?
« Reply #32 on: November 07, 2019, 04:43:46 PM »
Damn, first time I saw this post.

He finally wised up and gave her the boot, His words.

Good for him... escaping a psycho bitch is a five star effort.  :P

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Re: My Girlfriend is being harassed by mystery person(s). advice?
« Reply #33 on: November 07, 2019, 11:55:59 PM »
Ahh well, I imagine he had some fun and has lived to tell the tale.

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Re: My Girlfriend is being harassed by mystery person(s). advice?
« Reply #34 on: March 11, 2021, 02:05:13 PM »
I'd rather not bring up old things, but it seems only fair to tell the ending of the story... sorry for bumping the old post, It's painful to stay logged in after becoming an adult with responsibilities and stuff...

I'd like to start by saying, you guys are right and I always appreciate the advice. RUN. I didn't because I was too invested, and honestly things were great when they were great and we both were investing in the relationship/ life. Once she got Fired and couldn't get another Job, Her crazy meds and other medications weren't be refilled. and it spiraled from there. Ultimately, she ended everything. about a week or so after this post was made.

Things I should have mentioned but didn't :
She was 37 (looked 25) and I was 22.
The sex was constant and amazing. She only had three partners before, and they all left her because they were sex addicts, and she quit putting out.
Crazy EX had a young daugher with his first wife, that she raised for two years and calls her mom. He used the kid to make her feel bad too.

Ending / resolution :
I couldn't deal with all the bitching... I know all women bitch, but the lawyer in her wanted to debate on things and prove me wrong or ill experienced since the 15 year age gap. I ended up getting a kidney stone, and the pain, lack of sex from said pain, and the arguing, crazy BS, and more all added up. She went Crazy from not taking her medicine, and the Ex manipulated her using his Kid and money. She was always faithful to me while we were together, and she broke it off before I could. I made the decision to break it off, but at a later date because she was on her Period, and with all the shit going on it wouldn't seem right to leave her in that way. She told me it was over as a relationship but was ok with being friends, which to be honest, I never wanted a relationship. I just wanted crazy hot sex and fun. Which it was until it wasn't. I was Ok with Friends with Benefits, but a few days later after some time apart, she disappeared from the apartment with her dog... which she didn't do. I called after I stayed for the morning. I asked where she was and she told me she was visiting with the Ex's daughter.... I packed my shit and left when I became the bad guy for asking. I left my apartment key on the coffee table and the door unlocked. I went back 2 days after and she hadn't been back. the door unlocked key same spot. grabbed my forgotten shit. let her know My key was left there days ago and her door had been left unlocked. She was upset, but she deserved to be. I avoided her and she unfriended me on Facebook. She called a month later to tell me I forgot some things there, but I definitely did not. I went back twice because I forgot things. I even left the love letter she wrote me 2 weeks prior on the bed. Looking back that must have been a booty call or an attempt to talk...

Either way, it ended. Crazy went with Crazy (I guess) ,  and I didn't want to be the last two exes that wouldn't leave her alone (Damn that was good sex). I went by the apartment twice, long after it was over, and mail was stuck in the door from Several weeks prior.... like tons of mail. she hadn't been there. Her mom's wind chimes were still on the patio though....

 I hope she got help and is happy.

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Re: My Girlfriend is being harassed by mystery person(s). advice?
« Reply #35 on: March 11, 2021, 04:29:06 PM »
Thank you for the closure.  I've wondered about the ending to the story more than once.

Did you keep those nudes?  8)
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Re: My Girlfriend is being harassed by mystery person(s). advice?
« Reply #36 on: March 11, 2021, 07:45:21 PM »
Put me on that email chain of nudes, sharing is caring  :D

Glad its all over for you, life lessons are important to go through.

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Re: My Girlfriend is being harassed by mystery person(s). advice?
« Reply #37 on: March 11, 2021, 08:21:09 PM »
PM me her digits.  :)



i'm just kidding.



i'm not. hot crazy is fun. my name is klassic hernandez. doctor.
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Re: My Girlfriend is being harassed by mystery person(s). advice?
« Reply #38 on: March 11, 2021, 10:37:14 PM »
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Re: My Girlfriend is being harassed by mystery person(s). advice?
« Reply #39 on: March 11, 2021, 10:59:28 PM »
Imo the crazyest thing here is that you asked for advices to arcade / pinball collectors  ;D ;D ;D
I'm pretty sure 90% of us are divorced - or closed to be - because of "i can't believe you bought another one!?!"
So yes please, pm the hot pics of the crazy ex to your nerdy friends  ;D

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Re: My Girlfriend is being harassed by mystery person(s). advice?
« Reply #40 on: March 11, 2021, 11:11:03 PM »
We've all been through crazy and probably had crazy flings with wild woman.
Glad you finally saw the light though.

Pics are appreciated though.  Lol
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Re: My Girlfriend is being harassed by mystery person(s). advice?
« Reply #41 on: March 12, 2021, 01:05:02 PM »
I don't want to post revenge porn or be in the wrong, but sharing a photo, that I have removed the tramp stamp tattoo (via photoshop) and the exif Data from should be fine. at least until Photo bucket deletes my account. 36DD for scale.

This isn't to rile you perverts up, as much as it is to rectify me dating a 15 year older woman, at my age.



P.S. if you feel I should remove the pic (I will in the next 90 days or so anyway.... probably) I will.
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Re: My Girlfriend is being harassed by mystery person(s). advice?
« Reply #42 on: March 22, 2021, 10:30:32 AM »
No shame with being cougar bait you were just taken advantage of by an older lady. Now where is that luckiest boy in the village badge?  Keep moving forward and remember they are a different species from us and are all crazy why we are attracted to each other is a mystery just find the one who is right level of crazy for you!  Good luck take chances don’t get pregnant and don’t get married you’ll be fine. ;).
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Re: My Girlfriend is being harassed by mystery person(s). advice?
« Reply #43 on: March 22, 2021, 10:51:47 AM »
Good luck take chances don’t get pregnant and don’t get married you’ll be fine. ;).

Where were you with this advice when I needed it 20 years ago, Al?

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Re: My Girlfriend is being harassed by mystery person(s). advice?
« Reply #44 on: March 22, 2021, 12:36:23 PM »
Yeah why do you think I'm still single!?!??   ;)