OK,
add me to the "F#*K you, Ebay & Paypal...I'm done" list. I may type more when I calm down (don't feel like writing a book right now), but I had a transaction a few months ago that buyer pulled BS, wanted full refund AND keep item, Ebay automatically deems you guilty until proven innocent. Well, it turned out they just paid off the seller themselves, and didn't take thhe was scammine money back from me as a courtesy. I was still pissed, as I had proof he was BSing, but they ended it and closed case, so I should keep my mouth shut. I figured after a decade on ebay and them going downhill with more and more idiocy policy changes that pretty much ruin trying to continue to do business there...well, this was first incident I had like this, but a very easy scam to pull off once everyone catches on.
Well, now ANOTHER item it's happened with, the scam has caught on. This one was 2 sets of solar lights ($50, asking $40, I took best offer of $25 + s/h), since one was used I took offer of half the original price of both sets. Since the lady is a dumbass and can't figure out how to hook them up, multiple emails, promptly responding to every question and telling her if problems LMK and hopefully can get BOTH sets going, as she only could figure out one. Well, she tells me she'll test the other set and LMK tonight what happens. 2 days later I suddenly have a dispute case opened, and I'm guilty. I reply "WTF, I've BEEN helping you and open communication", she says I know, but I just wanted to open a case anyway since you hadn't replied to my last email. I said "The one YOU said you'd LMK??? and I never heard BACK from you, besides you opening a case?

" So, of course same issue as last time, they want to keep item, full refund, don't want to spend $ to ship back, I'm guilty according to Paypal, as they freeze account, and actually put a HOLD on my Paypal AND charge me back the $40 initially from this transaction. So, as I agreed to refund this lady $12.50 for the non- working set she hasn't yet had TIME to determine if they actually DON'T work, I NOW had to re-pay Paypal $40 to clear my account, on top of ANOTHER $12.50 I had to pay to settle the dispute in order to UN Freeze my account...so now $50 up in the air I'm sure Paypal will reimburse me after they deem me innocent.
So, she got 2 sets of lights for the price of 1, THEN gets 2 sets for HALF the price of one, and of course I told her I HAD THEM WORKING, I know they work, but no choice but to fucking settle this damn thing, since somebody who can't wait a friggin DAY for a response (when SHE was the one who was supposed to respond) freaks out and automatically files a claim. Because everyone is ALWAYS living online, and answers emails instantly...and not like I'm on vacation or anything either. Kinda like...why ask your neighbor to not let your dog shit in your yard, when you can just sue them instead? People are dumb asses.
So, I've had enough. I haven't agreed with how Ebay has made buying and selling worse and worse over the years, you can't even tell the shill bidders like you used to, I'm not sure WHO it's trying to favor, since it's not the buyers in some ways and really not the sellers either in most OTHER ways. So, I took down all my auctions that were still up. It's not even worth my time boxing something up and going to the post office anymore, when ANYTHING you sell the buyer simply has to file a dispute, and suddenly you don't have your item OR your money anymore once they do a charge back. FUCK YOU, EBAY and Paypal. Someone LMK ANY other alternative, as open to anything for smaller items not worth dealing with CL people either.
There's the SHORT version.....